From Far and Wide

When the unexpected runs amok how do you react?

It could be a mouse in the house, no hot water while you're standing naked in the shower, or the sudden realization that you've overslept by one hour, what sets you off?

Do you know a whirling dervish? Someone who stirs up your emotions, the air and destroys the feeling of tranquility and calm? do they invoke your less-nice side, bring up old family behaviour and generally just peeve you right off? Does their emergency become your problem; their bad planning become your emergency?

Do you wake up each day and see a light shining at you from the end of the tunnel, or is there a fire crew and live telecast at your every corner? Today, do your best to keep some distance from those who rankle. some things can't be escaped, but some people can surely be avoided.

Whether you are Dan sitting high atop a mountain doing yoga at sunrise or Gareth, gazing at the setting sun on your Napa Vineyards, discord hits us all.

I suggest that on this sunny Saturday, we all take a deep breath, drink some CALM tea, or take a run around the block. Together, let's each do whatever soothes our souls so that when the unexpected comes knocking at your door, you can welcome it in and know that it too, will exit.

Listen to the Simple Things

I just found out that my cousin will be coming from out of province to visit me this summer. I haven't seen Sonia, who happens to be one of my most favourite people in over two years. So right away, I started a list. Where will I take her, what will we do? After I had jotted down several things I realized something...everything was simple.

The list included my favourite walk around the reservoir; the local tiny, cramped bookstore within walking distance from my front door; a great hike right in the city; a place with the best view and the best coffee. Things that touch my heart and hopefully will touch hers too. Day to day things that put a smile on our faces, regardless of whatever else is going on. How fortunate are we to have these things and how often do we miss them?

I will share these simple things with someone who is so special to me. It will be my gift to her.